Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Being a Mom - an exceptional role


Sometimes, we will never understand the role that every mother portrays until we become one for our own children. When I became a mother, everything about my mom suddenly came back and I know there were times in my life that I've took her for granted when she was here with us and that is something I regret.  There were times that I was insensitive of her feelings/emotions and ignored  her words, her actions & advice. I know I could never write a blog to describe all the sweet & good memories of my Mom, most of all, her sacrifices. If there is one thing that I would like to do now is to be able to express my love & gratitude for all the love & support she has given me and to say how sorry I am for all of my shortcomings.   I really wish to hold her and how i miss her.
I wrote this to show the world how a mother can be an angel and a guiding star. here's  a piece for every woman who plays a tough role but rewarding. Here it goes!  

Every woman plays a diffrent roles and when she becomes a mother, she becomes the most fearless human being, ready for any kind of battle----- A Warrior! 

As a mother, you can do so much for your children. You give them everything just to make them happy-- that's what you want for them..HAPPINESS.. From their infancy, you learn strategies to protect them..You give all your effort and support … Sometimes even those you cant afford but still managed to get yourself in huge debt just to give them the proper education. . Being a mother takes a lot of courage that includes making the hard decisions, no matter what… Sometimes that means doing what you don’t want to do, and if there are times that you can’t provide what they need, what they want, the mother suffers the beating in silence just like the powerful volcano erupts in their faces, we feel the guilt and that’s the worst enemy, being unable to provide just hurts! ..Mother would give the greatest kind of love that they could show to the world and I admire their tenacity and bravery. When the child suffers nobody knows the anguish a mother .

We all have burdens in life, regardless of how easy and carefree it may seem to the exterior world. Surely it is a burden, a weight, to have so much responsibilities and expectations to live up to… and a sacrifice also, of self and certain freedoms.. a quote says “ LIFE IS NOT PERFECT”.. although you have all the chances to enjoy its ride! It’s your choice!;-)

I am a mother who got the privilege to handle a very important role in life, maybe God knows I'm strong enough for the duty;-) I was chosen and I'm grateful to have this privilege. I am nothing special but I’m unique in my own way, (well everyone is unique, every woman, I agree!) and just like millions of others I am a parent, a mother who loves their children and does what it takes to raise them. My journey to a motherhood is a long road, I've walked a thousand miles and it was not easy, and as I continue to tread the pathway,  I believe I am one of the living proof of “footprints in the sand" for HE has carried me all the way, especially when the going gets tough. I may be get tired but I've no complaints whatsoever even at times I’m in the state of cry for help! Seriously! GOD gives me strength and these words were stuck in my thick skull! HE NEVER TOLD US IT WILL BE EASY, sometimes he makes things harder for us to learn to appreciate of what we have, anything about life. Sa kawalan at sa kasaganaan, (for richer and for poorer) I will continue to feel like I'm on top of the world baby;-)




Written in August 10, 2013 and published through my other website called iampetrablogs.wordpress.com 

http://iampetrablog.wordpress.com/2014/03/31/a-mothers-heart/